Twenty years ago, premature ejaculation definition had very clear parameters: everything that lasted less than two minutes automatically made you a man with sexual problems. A little later, attitude towards premature ejaculation changed – now it is understood as condition in which ejaculation occurs either before sexual intercourse onset, or immediately after its onset.
This is the “number one” problem for many men, and, as a rule, failures associated with premature ejaculation are then reflected into the whole sphere of intimate life.
Premature Ejaculation Causes
In the vast majority, premature ejaculation occurs in adolescents who are just beginning their sexual life. It may happen because of:
- overexcitation;
- high sensitivity of penile glans.
Therefore ejaculation very often occurs either before penis introduction into vagina, or after just a few movements. Most often this quickly passes when you gain experience of sexual life, but it can persist for a long time, especially in case of psychological stress from failing.
Less common premature ejaculation occurs in mature men. Premature ejaculation can keep from youth or appear already at respectable age. This disorder is usually caused by quite different reasons.
All premature ejaculation causes can be divided into two groups:
- physiological, that is, associated with health problems or a particular structure / functioning of organs;
- psychological.
Erectile Dysfunction Physiological Causes
- increased sensitivity of penile glans;
- chronic vasculitis – inflammation of seminal vesicles in which spermatozoa and other constituents of sperm are formed in the testes (vesiculitis never develops without prostatitis – inflammation of prostate gland);
- increased sensitivity of penile glans may be congenital and acquired. Acquired appears as a result of balanoposthitis or phimosis and is not so common.
Premature Ejaculation Psychological Causes
Sometimes premature ejaculation occurs only because man is afraid of it. Statistics show that direct sexual intercourse lasts no more than two minutes on average. And, nevertheless, this duration is a very individual thing. However, not understanding this, many young people are disheartened by results of their sexual intercourses from the very beginning.
In fact, they become dangerous enemies for themselves. They are victims of myth that passes from generation to generation, myth is about “the more the better.” At the same time, their suffering is no less than humiliation experienced at close proximity with woman.
Often premature ejaculation in young men is caused by the fact that they masturbate too vigorously, wanting to achieve “great result” as soon as possible. At the same time, they practically do not pay attention to emotions that precede ejaculation, and it leads to inability to recognize feelings (both their own and partners) before orgasm. Those men who suffer from this disease do not develop a normal sensation of their own sexual organs: they simply do not know what man should feel during strong sexual excitement preceding orgasm.
Premature Ejaculation Treatment
More than two thousand years ago, taoistic doctors had already written books in which they talked about love and sex. Sexual intercourse in these works was considered as a necessary condition for person’s physical and spiritual health. Particular emphasis was placed on technique of love, brought to level of art. At the same time, the most important part was control over ejaculation, which explains existence of large number of benefits for “young men who start living”, concerning this aspect of issue.
According to teachings of “Tao“, man belongs to “yan”, whose distinctive feature is easy and quick excitement, which also passes. The woman belongs to “yin” – she slowly gets excited and slowly becomes saturated. In other words, man and woman need different terms for both stimulation and orgasm achievement. And challenge is to roughly equalize them, and ideally – to synchronize these terms.
Try to follow these ancient principles on your own. The technique of “stop-start” allows you to get acquainted with the emotions of each partner arising before ejaculation. The idea is to bring a man so close to ejaculation as possible, but not to cross the line separating the highest stage of excitement from ejaculation. Young men who will have to re-discover this truth will eventually learn to do this, and they will have reward for sense of acute pleasure.
In principle, there is such an option: balanus skin, devoid of foreskin, becomes more rough and less sensitive to friction during stimulation, which pushes off orgasm. Therefore, it can be recommended to those who suffer from premature ejaculation to make genital mutilation.
In any case, one should not suffer alone – it is better to ask for a solution to sex therapist who can give good advice. After initial examination, you may need to see andrologist and urologist, as well as study of your hormonal profile.